Confused??

Who are we?

What do we want from our life?

Is reading a passion or a compulsion?

Whom do we love and why?

Who are our friends?

How much trust can you have on others?

Is there a god?

Does love exist?

Do people genuinely care about others?

Is drinking a bad habit?

When is a live-in relation justified?

Is it ok to bitch about others?

Why do people crib about their happy live?

Why miss others when you have your life to deal with?

How can you show that you love and care?

Is it wrong to think about oneself?

Why do we complicate things and life?

Why the need to talk to someone when you alone?

Why pray only when you in trouble?

Why having sex is such a major issue in our lives?

Why do people end up judging you?

Why do we have to be social?

Why is money, religion and looks the most important attributes for marriage?

Why can't people mind their own business?

Why are we always confused about our decisions?

Why live a life we gonna end regreting having lived in the first place..??

Why write this post, this blog?

Why have confusions?

P.S: I always tried and provide answers which seem relevant to me.. but here are some confusions which we all face. hope my readers can answer some for me..

Funny love!!

Why is it that a person whom we love deeply, we cannot properly pronounce their names? We always end up shortening their names to an extent that they seem like funny baby noises.. Imagine my husband will start by callin me ripu.. to rips.. to ri.. and various other versions in affect to that

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Another scenario I've noticed is that we tend to give cute names to our lovers.. shona, sweetu, jaan, jaanu, babes, baby, honey, sugar and all sweetening stuff. So in the new age health concious world I would hate my husband calling me honey or sweets and we would switch to the more healthy option of Sugar free or natura and so on... Although not as romantic but atleast its a healthy option!! wat say!!

Now Lovers have got to meet up right!!?? And one major issue of concern here is WHERE?? There are a lot of coffee shops and malls but naa thats too cliche now.. Mocha and hooka joints are in.. Then comes the part of payments.. Dutch?? Does it work??

Am I your equal that I have to pay or should one person be generous enough? I think this is very case specific and to each one its own. I would not comment on it.

Love to marriage is a case which is a little more trickier and thicker muck to go down in. Maximum of "love" cases trickle down to past relations and crushes because they do not or cannot cross the transition phase and the tribulations faced in such phases.

Then there is another kind of love.. the love that never was...

This scenario is when a guy/gal loves someone but they do not respond. The type of funny oaths that are given in leu of attaining the love that did not exist in the first place is heartrendingly hilarious. Being on either side of such a situation is an enormously emotional trauma.

Love is funny and love is very subjective and case sensitive.

If you are in love then try and look back on your relation and what you cling onto in a relation, is it the sweetened talk or is it the solid trust and respect.

Happy Loving Anyways!!

BR

Manu