Love Vs Understanding!!!

And the prince and princess lived happily ever after.......

This is how most of our lovely fairy tales end. One seems to ponder that is it really possible that two people meet and fall in love in the first sight.. Well who knows ya, it might just happen. The thought I wanna put forward is that is love enough for them to survive for ever after?

Sequels of movies like Shrek show a somewhat realistic picture. Its not love that keeps the happy ending but the understanding among them. Love is more of an attachment, both physical and emotional, understanding on the other hand is looking through the eyes of the other person. When one person truly understands the needs, thoughts, fears, aspirations and mischiefs of the other, that is true understanding and that is when the happy endings begin.

Although like its not necessary that the person who you love lives with you for the whole life, it is also not necessary that the person who understands you will love you as a life partner. With the changing scenario and broadning horizons the concept of having a close knit friend circle of both guys and gals who truly understand each other and are comfortable talking about every issue is becoming more acceptable to the world.

The trend although new is quite appealing to the youth. If you come to think of it the concept is been in front of us since so many years. Why else would the series "Friends" be so popular in our culture. The only thing is that the youth now unabashedly declares that they do want to be free and equal in every sense.

Every story has a sting in the tail!!

What are the chances of your opposite sex buddy to remain just friends?? And the biggest fear is can your life partner accept such a friendship??

Well it is a limit decided by every individual and his or her family background. Food for thought in this post is what if you have to choose between a friend and your love, then what would be your choice??

Love is passion, Friendship is understanding..

Love can never end with friendship, it becomes too awkward to go a step behind. Yet friendship can be beautifully and sensually be turned into love, its just a mutual step ahead.

I would end this post on a very personal note.

Love showed me fun, adventure, passion but ended by giving me pain .....
Friendship showed me trust, faith, understanding and has a promise of never coming to an end.

So for me.. in a fight of Love Vs Understanding

Understanding wins... My friendship wins...

Thanks for making me understand this baba...
tc......

Whose fault is it anyways!!!

Hey all my readers!! suprisingly there are only two of them I guess.. Anyways I'm writing this out because I spent the most confusing day of my life!!!

Who is at fault if two people just can't stay with each other and can't seem to stay apart too!!
And I'm NOT talking about love.. It's just friendship.. But such a screwed up friendship that I cry every time I think about it...

Every word spoken among them stings the other. Things are always misunderstood.. Ego is given more importance than anything else.. Both know that they care for the others friendship but refuse to acknowledge it. Fights are more common than words of friendship or encouragement or appreciation. All the time is spent in BLAMING!!

Its not like its any of my concern but it hurts to see both of them like this.. If one takes one step towards the other of understanding the other does something or the other to make the step useless.. Not only that it sends away that friend two steps back..

This might be the most confusing and probably the worst post I've ever written.. But those whom I want to understand will get it I guess....
thanks baba for being there!!!

tc..........

Bani* 2.... The Saga Continues...

Just when I thought I knew all about this girl she continues to surprise me. It was my brother's marriage and this wonder gal was my life saviour. She keeps all her sadness to herself and enjoys because I'm happy. Dances, sings and joins the fun and frolic and before long she is taken in as a part of the family. I can trust her with anything and share all with her. She taught me so much in life that it would be an insult to our relation if I just call her my friend...

We do disagree with loads of things and fight a lot yet that understanding between us is beyond any words. I go to her place and feel as if I'm at my second house and so does she. The informality among us surprises many, even our family members.

Hey Bani* I know U'll read this post so don't you dare to leave my side atleast for the next two years.. k.. coz you know I'm one crazy gal and can do anything.. hehehehehehe..

Anyways I'll just end this post by saying that...

Bani* is a sibling that God forgot to give me......



take care.

DeAtH

What does your mind imagine when you see the topic..

Death!!

The interesting aspect of blogging is that I search for pictures to suit my particular post. When I typed " death" as the key word it was amazingly shocking in what ways death can be perceived.

It can be seen as heart break, a betrayal, a personal loss, guns can portray death so can an innocent looking flower...

We are too lost in our lives to think about matters as serious as these but I have loads of free faltu time and I tend to think about it. For me death is having a purposeless life.. A life without any direction or movement is death. If we don't have a drive or passion that is death. But I also perceive death as something very sacred. A silent sleep that takes you to a place of bliss. A song without lyrics and a soul without worldly lusts..

Thats DeAtH..

And its Beautiful.........

SACRIFICE....

I was naive when I first met you,

Unaware of what you wanted of me,

You showed a caring nature and I liked it,

It seemed like you were truly concerned.

I sacrificed my inhibitions,

to trust in your care.

I sacrificed my innocence,

to truly understand you.

It was my time I sacrificed,

to spent precious moments with you.

I sacrificed my cash,

to talk to you for hours.

The long nights I sacrificed,

to keep you company.

To have a day to only us,

I sacrificed my parents trust.

I sacrificed my being,

to love you.

And then.......

I sacrificed my love,

to your new infactuation........

BLASPHEMY!!!!!!

How strongly do you believe in religion and its norms and traditions????

It's a question which many people ask themselves but rarely ponder about.. Sikhs have forever been classified as the hyperactive community which to an extent is true, but the real point is.......
Is it incorrect to be a fanatic for your religion??

My blood boiled when I saw the pictures of a person dressed as my religion's Tenth Guru and as if that was not enough he actually baptized his "followers" in that attire. I'm too lost in the religious implications to be bothered about the political agenda hidden behind. I don't care if Congress lost or the BJP won or whatever is the consequence of a stupid election.

What scares me more is not that a person dared to do such an act but that many Sikhs refuse to act on it under the veil that if they do so then their so called "militant" image will be stamped in the media. They say commerce and business is being affected in Punjab due to the protest. What I ask is that should we be a weakling and accept whats given to us on a platter so that business flourishes?? Figures and numbers and currency will rule our lives while the world can mock our traditions and values but we refuse to act??

We have been taught the lessons of patience and harmony but if injustice is thrust on to us while our silent protests go unheard we will not be afraid to pick up the sword too..

It might seem a very small issue to those who have no clue of what Sikhism is about. For most of those people we are just people who dress funny, refuse to shave or cut out hair and are excellent subject matter for jokes. Yet the reality is far more solemn than these petty issues.

" We are different because we dare to be different"

Let me use this blog to share the myth of " Sardar ke 12 baj gaye". Yes we have heard it often in jokes or being portrayed in movies as a satirical joke but the true story is not a laughing matter..
Aurangzeb was on a spree of conversion and he used harshest of the means to do so. His soldiers kidnapped young village girls and it was then that the village folks approached Sikhs to save the honour of their daughters. These Khalsa's carried out their rescue operation after midnight to have the advantage of night time. They were charged with fuming energy unlike anyone had ever witnessed and it was beyond words. Thus the phrase of " barah bajna" was coined to symbolize the grit and guts of those Khalsa's at that particular hour.

Its a sorry state that today most people accept it as something funny........

Most of us are unaware of reality and seem to think that the headlines shown are so messy just because politics and religion have gone to bed together. Think once again,
We are not fighting for a political gamete, we are fighting for our religious dignity!!
Respect that!!!!!!

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Twenty!!!!!!!!

Hey people I celebrated my birthday on this 16th and with this birthday I bid a farewell to my teenage..
I've had a roller coaster ride all these years and experimented almost all things I possibly could. Its not like my life ends here but its a new beginning for me.. A turning point from where I can now not return so I leave my regrets and past faults behind and start afresh..

My birthday was a blast and all my friends wished me.. SAM* as usual your wishes were the closest I hold and also Bani* who was with me all through the day.. Munna, Baba and gang wished me a day earlier but that too was pretty cute of them..
Guess what Baba took the pains of wishing me again the next day that is on my actual birthday.. U the sweetest ya:)

Thanks to all my friends for making my " teenage farewell birthday" so special..
Veer and Bhabs you were the first ones to wish me and also Charu di..
Ma, Pa love u loads for smiling all day for me no matter wat..

bbye n tc..........