OUTspoken!!!!!!

Its been so long since I came to Hyderabad and I had to write a post on the wonderful language mixture that is spoken out here. For all the Telgu speaking readers please take no offense in what you are about to read below... these are small anecdotes which I shared with the people I spend time with...

The first day my sister steps into the college for admission the peon welcomes them with a smile and says to them " randi kurchandi", the shock on my parents face is too obvious and the peon fails to understand the reason for the distraught reaction. Actually what he innocently meant was for them to sit down but poor my parents, ignorant of the language used here thought the peon used " randi" as in punjabi which actually means a whore.. Imagine their sense of relief when they found out what the peon meant and this joke still somehow manages to make us tickle with laughter.

The other thing in this place is the way they use Hindi here... Gosh it is sooooo gooooood that anyone with proper knowledge of Hindi will either get bugged or laugh his ass off depending on his temprament. " Main tere ko pakad ke maregi" to " kya kar re le mamu tum loga"..... At first instant it mesmerizes me to see that how easily they can scramble up such a unique language and bring it up in this way.... Then slowly I too get pretty used to it and the words "re" and "da" just seem to start mingling with my sentences until i'm brought back to my original Hindi dictionary after an ocassional talk with my friend at Delhi where proper language is not such an uncommon phenomenon atleast till now!!!!!!!

Anyways I sometimes truly enjoy the way one word can mean such different things in two languages and how these things can spice up your boring life........

I'm loving it and invite all others to experience the same feeling....
till then tc and god bless

Journey to marriage

The Band Wala's to the Mehendi artists to the sumptuous food menu discussions, till the knot is tied the atmosphere in the whole house is so charged that you cannot help but get swept off in its torrent. Specially when the person getting married is very close to you.. Its not about how much you spend on the marriage, its just how much effort and resources you put in to make the best out of what you can..

The marriage I'm talking off is still three months away but almost every holiday turns out to be a shopping experience for us.. To the jokes and anecdotes and yes the teasing of the Bridegroom.. It's like all the family members had saved all of their energies for that one special day.. The formalities seem fun and the occasional problems more challenging, the discussion on what exactly every member should wear on that special day makes one feel like we had neva been to any other party and gotta impress all in this particular function only.. lol..

Jokes apart this journey also allows you to interact with the new addition to your family and to try and accept that person and also mould them according to your family values. Its literally marriage of two families rather than two individuals..

I'm yet to experience the actual sensation of the marriage where all our preparations will be tested but as of now I'm thoroughly enjoying the journey to that celebrated destination called marriage..

till then tc and god bless...........

The Way You Make Others Feel!!!!!!!!!!

Life is so amazing when You hearing awesome music and something great has happened in your life!!
I guess all of us are inspired to live a better and more fulfilling life because someone somewhere cares that this day you have smiled!! It is even better and fulfilling to know that you can and sometimes are a reason why some person decided to smile and give his or her life another shot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I usually have been cribbing on this blog that my life has dished out only harsh stuff to me but that I realized is so untrue!! I've got amazing friends and even though I fight with them and sometimes they don't seem to get what I want but they are still fantabulous and these things somehow only brings me closer to them!!
Having an amazing family,comfortable life, whole bunch of opportunities open to me, stupidly cute and amazing friends, this all being too long with you seems to make me ungrateful......

I get up in the morning and the wonderful Hi Fi my Dad gives, my Mom's warm cuddly hug and the cheerful smiles of my siblings-they the smallest things ever but they get me through my day no matter what!! and if I can't then I always have Bani* by my side or Saanjh* to make me laugh or Baron* to just listen without any judgements at all!!!!!!!!!! Even when we have fought they smile when they see me!! Its wonderful to have good friends but its even amazing to BE an amazing friend!!!!!

So all those people out there who feel they don't have friends to witness their life.. for once go out there and first be a friend you would like to be friends with!! Maybe you'll get hurt on the way but don't give up easily coz in the end its worth it!!!!!!!!!!

This post goes out to all those wonderful people who make me feel special everyday!!!!!!!! Thanks a tonne!! U've made my world a better place to live in!!!!!!!!



P.S. The astericked names have been changed for privacy of the people concerned..

Just For Gags

The most amazing thing about my college is that most of the people I know in it suffer from a severe amnesia problem!! U might think it's very bad but actually it is a blessing in disguise.. It's a blissful way to enjoy life and tends to leave you happier than U eva wanna be!!

Most of the time early mornings is the best time to see the students.. It's like they have had the most amazing sleep and are so darn cheerful!! Full ear to ear flashy smiles which would bedazzle most of the toothpaste commercial makers!!

Anyways the moods lite and people enjoy.. then till lunch they get exhausted from the wonderful neverland they had been residing in and moods start to change!! nevertheless they still try to keep themselves together.. Till the end of the day they seem exhausted and a typical " Revital " advertisement maker would love them to act for him at that particular time!!

Jokes apart I truly think colleges are a great learning experience!! And my college is like heaven in the field of " Real Life Education" !!!! So anyone interested in finding out how U can maintain a smile no matter what and how to suffer from selective amnesia to improve the quality of your life do give my college a visit.. I bet U'll not regret the visit and truly I would love to show you around !!!!!!!!!

Till then take care!!!!!

Exam Jitters

Every student has them in their life and I'm no different.
But this time it was another fear that had clasped me in its clutches, the fear of failing yet again. Its not that I won't write the exam or something but somehow I've known that I'm not a graceful looser. I crib and keep munching the same issue till I can't do anything more about it.
Anyways just had to write it down....

Hoping to do my best..
till then take care...........................

Prejudiced

I've been getting alot of comments lately about the way I created this blog and " what made me do this" to qoute it exactly!!

Frankly I would like to put it on a harsh platter to all my readers(very few r there actually), Don't be prejudiced in your judgement about who and what I am just becoz you happened to read this blog. I mean yes I am what I write but I gotta tell you that I write wen i'm emotionally charged about something. It hardly means that I am a weakling who cannot stand up wen it is required. Also i'm not trying to be philosophical for anyone else's benefit( This was tol by a very close person and I needed to explain abt it). I just write what I feel or felt at that particular moment and although I do encourage any kind of comments I would urge You not to JUDGE me.

Through this post I would also like to thank all my friends who gave their honest and true opinions about this blog. Special thanks to my close pal, your words meant a lot to me( hope u get it that i'm talkin of u)!!!!!!!

HoW ScreWeD uP yOu caN GEt??

Out of matter to write and feeling too bored to explore relations or emotions or dig out dirt from my past I tend to surf new sites or visit other blogs( which is pretty new for I recently found out abt this blogging thing)

Well contrary to the common belief that people are the same at the core I believe that they are way too different for our comprehension!!
Why else would the world be so interesting a place?? Some take a friendship and say its love, is it so?? Are we capable of loving a person more than oneself!! Oh puhlease for all those who'll raise an eyebrow and say you can be so selfless, GROW UP!!

Hypocrisy and innocence have a very fine line between them....
children cross it every time but we tend to ignore it. I've seen this trait pretty often specially in my Venusian counterparts and somehow I too have mastered the art!!

When someone innocently takes infatuation for love, I'd say that the person is lying!! We all know it in the bottom of our hearts that its not for real but we let it go on, ignore all the signs until we screw up wat we had and then later innocently cry over it!!

This is life and this it wat the so called relationship management Gurus will fail to tell you!!

Yes the person closest to your heart needs his space and time and so do you. He does not have to share every detail of his life with you BUT the question is WHY would he not want to????
I have very very less personal experience in the matter of loving a guy but that on the contrary gives me the chance to have a bird's eye view of other's relations!!

I'm no expert and frankly people who do tell you that they are experts, they are simply big time hypocrates!!
No one can actually help you to NOT to screw up your life bcoz eventually you will!!
You will FALL( n mark me here) in love because there are only lucky few who rise in it!!
You will take a girl or guy to be innocently in love with you and probably screw up your life with expectations and disappointments!! You'll cry in the bed all alone wishing to change the past!! Yet trust me all this is worth it !!!!
FINALLY
" Its not how much you screw up,
its how gracefully you screw up that matters at last"

ps: Failed to search a perfect picture for the emotion described..
got any ideas so do post in comment.. tc